My Husband Hid his Children From Me!
« on: January 9th, 2007, 9:08pm »

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This is a dream from another relative that asked me to post for her. We must be a family of dreamers.
She dreamed that she and her husband took a trip to her husband's hometown. While there they visited his old family home house.It is deserted now ,but in the dream town people were passing by and some of them stopped and greeted them because they knew her husband.
After the long ride she had to go to the restroom. The restroom was a public restroom that was out doors and up some steps.On her way to the restroom she passed by a little boy that was crying. He appeared to be 9 or 10 years olds.When she looked back to ask the little boy what was wrong ,she saw and heard her husband reprimanding the child and telling him to hush because no one wanted to hear him.
When she came out of the restroom her husband was waiting to go in. She stopped and asked the little boy what was wrong?
He told her his dad had hit him.She asked him who was his daddy and he told her it was her husband!
The little boy saw her husband come out of the restroom and he ran away.
A woman passing by asked what happened ?"Did his Daddy hit him again, she asked?"He is always hitting him. He doesn't treat him like he does the other children.My relative asked the woman how many children did he have?She responded seven or eight.The lady told her the child's mother's full name.
when she and her husband got back in the car ,and he was touring her around the town ,she asked him if he had any children in this town?He told her yes!She then asked how many?He responded 8 children .She asked him how he could live with her 15 years and not tell her about the children or help take care of them or anything.He asked her how did she know he wasn't helping his children?
When she woke up he was looking at her and asking what was
she dreaming this time?She doesn't dream ofen,but when she does the dreams are profound.
Thank you for your comments in advance and do pray for her. . Her name is Gloria.
Their house caught on fire right before Christmas and they are going through a trial in their marriage and family.

Was the dream true?

No,she says it was a recent ,troubling dream and she asked me to post it for her. Why? Do you know something I don't?

I had a recent troubling dream that all my teeth fell out. When I woke up I was relieved that all my teeth were still there and I was no longer troubled.

Even though I am not a betting man I would bet $1000 that her husband does not have 8 extra children. Your friend would confront her husband if there was any possibility of this being true. Of course she will not because she knows she will come across absurd if she does.

Best bet is to put this dream out of her mind entirely as an aberration of the subconcious (which most dreams are).

Good point here made by laurel. I remember as a kid worrying about missing the bus to take me to camp.
Sure enough that night I dreamed vividly that I was missing the bus.
When I woke up I realised that I had NOT missed the bus.

Sometimes we worry needlessly about things which will not happen.
Sometimes though we worry because "where there is smoke there is fire".

If her husband has been behaving suspiciously then the friend should confront her husband about those suspicious things in order to set her mind at rest. If her mind is at rest (peace) during the day then they will not come out as disturbing dreams at night. However if he has done nothing suspicious then the dream should not be an indicator of the husbands behaviour but rather an indicator of the wifes insecurities.

Sometimes our own insecurities which come from a poor relationship with God are transferred and expressed as insecurity in our other relationships. Developing a strong relationship with God will solve a great many issues with other people therefore as we change ourselves instead of battling to change others.