Dear Miki,
I am sorry if I came across as a gossip to you
When I was hearing those things that really were
hard for me (from this woman) in church-I did
tell her I cannot handle it. I am very senstivie
to this language and that I believe it grieves the
Holy Spirit with this kind of talk. We are in the Lord's
house and my friend that witnessed this encouraged
me to go get help from the pastor.

I don't like gossip at all and never told anyone else
in the church. I went strictly to the pastor for some
guidance on how to handle the matter. I do feel he
is more knowledgeable than I. I agreed with my friend
and do think God gives us people that can help us.

I just really wasn't trying to judge this woman,but
simply asked the pastor for some help. In return
he tod me that I am judging and that was it. No
help on how to reach her.

All that being said. I didn't stop befriending this woman.
I took her to lunch,picked her up for bible class, took
her daughters everywhere they needed to go, had her
at my place constantlyand so on. I found out she needed
a shoulder to cry on. I never gave up on her and she
didn't give up on me finding a way to help her. God never
gave up on the two of us.

I was just disappointed in my pastors response, but I
still love him dearly. i disappoint people too and I
think I have you Miki, For that I am sorry!!

Please forgive me, I am a work in progress.
I struggle everyday to be more Christ like.


Blessing to you my dear Miki.
Hope to be friends

Gosh..... that was sweet....apology from you to Miki.....(from RosielovesJesus) I didn't get in on the first half, but Wow ....this was real sweet. nice one.

Your sweet my dear but l said what was on my mind and let it go a long time ago. In fact l couldn't even remember who said it....

(Boy the old Pastor really gets an ear full doesn't he )

Lets move on...Old people don't remember much. Especially this one...If l held on to all the words people said l'd be a burdened down old nag.

That was the first time I ever went to a pastor and I am soon to be 48.
They don't hear much from me. Is that good or bad?

Dear Miki,I have let it go.I wrote that in November. I don't remember things like that-especially if you forgive me. Thanks!

We have our mind on other things-like Godly things don't we.
\God bless you all

That was nice of you to say. Everything I read from you,I must say you are
the sweet one. You have such a spirit of kindness and love. I always feel
this from your posts. What a blessing you are to those around you.