angelheart424
Nov 9 2008, 02:00 PM
Hello I am urgently seeking all to cry out to God and seek His Divine Intervention.....
My son-in-law as many of you know from past posts is a drug addict. Bad drugs have controlled his life for many of the 9 years that my daughter has been married to him. In the past she had always given him the bennifit of the doubt hoping always that he would stop using. After years of lasing everything she had ever worked hard to have and dealing with him stealing from family members including her own hard earned money, to support their three children, to support his habbit. Amber finally got to the point that she just could't do it any more. So she filed for a divorce. She fears her husband b/c he is always telling her that he will kill her or all of them if she leaves him. He is very physicotic (hope I spelled that right) He will hurt someone. Well now he is threating her that when she is at work tonight that he is going to take the car (b/c it's in his name even though he hasn't worked for over a year and it was her money that bought it) and he is going to take the kids and leave probably going to Pocahontas AR. B/C they are still married there isn't anything she can do. HE IS A THREAT to my grandchildren. He is just doing this to hurt Amber not realizing the dramatic results it will leave the children with. He is constantly telling his middle child Jadelyn that her mommy hates her and that's why she is making her daddy leave. It is really bad...My grandchildren have heard him talk with such anger and hate with words like KILL and MURDER and DRUG TALK and it goes on and on. One day I heard my 3 yr. old grandson say "There is a cop out side I will shot and kill him" My gosh he is only three. He would always watch morbid movies like SAW and others while the kids watched. And shows like FAMILY MAN it is so bad he is not a dad who can take care of his kids. He has no money no job no home it will devastae my daughter AND the children if he gets away with doing this. BUT I KNOW A GOD WHO CAN INTEVENE AND STOP ANY DANGER FROM THESE CHILDREN AND MY DAUGHTER.
PLEASE PLEASE PRAY FOR GOD'S DIVINE INTERVENTION IN THIS MATTER.
And please pray for me. In July after loosing my mom I had allowed myself to shut down I talked to no one didn't go to Church and in the past few days it's like I just woke up and the greiving has began. And now I have to worry about my Daughter and Grandchildren and their safety. My heart is pounding so hard and I am shaking. The tears won't stop for my mom and I just don't know how much more I can deal with.... I close my eyes and qoute 1 COR. 10-13 God will not give me any more then I can handle and He will give me a way. Even though I believe in thoses words with all my heart it is still so hard right now.
I love all of you so much and I am thanking you now for all of your prayers. And for all the past prayers that God has always answered and got me through....
Peace Be To You All And God's Blessings will be at your doorstep..
You Sister In Christ Jesus,
Helen...aka...angelheart
Pamela
Nov 9 2008, 02:02 PM
Helen most certainly will we be praying for your prayer requests.....
Praying....
angelheart424
Nov 9 2008, 02:06 PM
Thank you so mush Pamela, I will keep all of you up dated on the situation
Helen
angelheart424
Nov 9 2008, 02:32 PM
I just got this in my e-mail today after I posted...GOD IS GOOD
Sunday November 09
This week's promise: God will never stop working in our lives
God's guidance
"I will bless the Lord who guides me; even at night my heart instructs me.
I know the Lord is always with me, I will not be shaken, for he is right beside me.
Psalm 16:7-8 NLT
The steps of the godly are directed by the Lord. He delights in every detail of their lives. Though they stumble, they will not fall, for the Lord holds them by the hand.
Psalm 37:23-24
" Giving thanks that God is near
Giving thanks that God is near
"Sometimes we try to "ride out the storms" in our lives—doing this the best we can. We think, If I can just hang on and be strong, I can get through this. David knew he couldn't make it on his own. In the past, he had found help in the Lord God. And in this prayer, David again sought the Lord's protection: "Keep me safe, O God, for I have come to you for refuge" (v. 1). He rejoiced in the guidance and assistance the Lord had given him. Though his enemies were trying to shake and topple him, David stood firm because God was "right beside" him.
In prayer today, acknowledge that God is right beside you—upholding and guiding you. Thank him that he helps you and does not leave you to struggle on your own.
A prayer for today…
Dear Lord, I will not be shaken, for you are right beside me…
from The One Year® Book of Bible Prayers edited by Bruce Barton(Tyndale) entry for November 4 "
Content is derived from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation and other publications of Tyndale Publishing House
damo7
Nov 9 2008, 04:43 PM
your daughter angelheart can slap an avo on him where he cant come no where near her or the house our the kids though she has to act fast their is no law that says a parent wil be charged if he or she takes the kids
i went through this my solicitor told me if i did what my x wife did to me by law she cant charge me as he is my son and i am his father
so your son in law is with in his rights i dont know what the law of the land is in your country you live in angelheart
hear in australia if a spouce ops for divorce and either parent threaten to take the kids you cant do a thing the only time you can act is as i said if her life is in danger she can slap an apprehended violence order but she has to act fast if he is threatening to take the car and kids or if he is threatening to kill them
drug addicts do this angel heart i am in recovery and have been in recovery for some time but it was my choice angel heart no one forced me and this is where i feel you need to use some commencence i know how hard it must be for you and your family and for your daughter your son in law is his own person the more you pressure him to give up lay the guilt trip it wil make him rebell and this is what is happening your son in law does not want to give up he feels he is in control when you can see the damage he is doing by stealing from your daughter selling of what she had brought to support his habbit stealing from family members to support his habbit he is not thinking right and yes drugs do this to a person who is hooked on marijuna speed coccaine herroin and hash and crack and ice once a person is hooked they wil do what ever to support their drug of choice i dont know your son in law or i dont know what drugs he is ussing but i do know how a drug addict thinks angel heart and sadly this happens its all in the NA BIG BOOK
your daughter can prevent your son in law from taking the car or her kids if she can leave them with you or a family member can she do this is she wiling to leave them with you angel heart ?
please tell your daughter for me to file an apprehended violence order when she files for the violence order tell her to tell the police officer she does not want him commin no where near the property or the house the police officer wil explaine everything to your daughter if your son in law breaches the avo he wil be in trouble he wil be first slapped with a fine and a warning it wil go in his file that he has breached an avo when he brakes the law again by coming near your daughter or trys to take the car or kids he wil be sent straight to jail no fine no warning
tell your daughter to pack al his clothes all his personal stuff she can give his personal belongings to his mates or if his parents are close by she can give this to them
the reason i am saying this if his clothes are in the house his personal stuf like music if he has a tv stereo play station he is with in his right but if everything of his is packed where nothing of his is in the house he then is with in no right to be near your daughter she wil have to be strong as i have seen where women have caved in
the country town i moved from a church i use to go to helps out women like your daughter one of the elders in the unitting church with sevral good brothers helps move the mother or fiancee move they come to the home pack all her stuff all the kids stuff and move them to a safe house where the partner can not have any contac with his spouce
your son ln law angel heart will not give up his addiction it has a hold of him angel heart he wil not listen to reason and as i said if your daughter has been laying the guilt trip on him it wil just make it worse he is an adult angel heart he is a human being angel heart he is not a child angel heart
if your daughter has not got the strength to place an avo on her husband you can do this on her behalf angel heart and do as i suggested get everything of his out of the family home and dump it at his mates place if he has no mates dump it on the foot path away from the house and cover it tel him his stuff wil be packed up and tell him if he does not want his personal stuf dumped at one of his mates homes you wil be dumping it on the foot path you wil not get in trouble angel heart or better give his stuff to the salvation army and only pack one bag with his clothes everything else get rid of it which should be not much as drug addicts pawn what they have were they dont bother pawning it back
once the avo is slapped on your son in law as i said if he breaches it he wil be in trouble add the kids in the avo only then can he get in trouble if he takes the kids once the avo has been handed to him
if it has not been handed to him he can do as he pleases and your daughter cant do nothing
i have been clean know since 2001 angel heart i use to deal in herroin and speed and marijuana i came close to killing a drug dealer god got me in 2001 angel heart my fiancee is a female pastor in the philippines when i am in the philippines visiting her i go to the mens jail with my father in law i preach to the male prisoners angel heart
hope what i have left angel heart helps do this when he is away from the family home and your daughter has the kids
i know if she states he is a drug addict he wil not be able to have the kids by him self angel heart these are our laws in Australia
Damo
Here Am I
Nov 9 2008, 05:22 PM
Dear Helen,
When there seems to be no way out... Our Lord provides a way.
I have interceded for you sister, and for this dire situation your daughter and grandkids are in. Praying that God would place His hedge of protection around them and keep them all from harm. Praying, also, that God may place someone in your daughter's path who can help her with the proper course of action to take in this matter, before her drug-addicted husband removes the kids from their mom and home.
May God's peace be upon you and your family!
HeIsFaithful
Nov 9 2008, 05:41 PM
I am indeed praying for you, your daughter, your grandkids.. and your son-in-law..
Father, please intervene.. protect these children with your hand of love and mercy.. and their mother also.
I ask you too, Lord, to please, in only the way that YOU can.. touch this man's eyes.. cause him to see his lost estate..
and by the power of your precious Holy Spirit, enable him to turn to you in repentance ..
And Abba, please, draw near to Helen.. comfort and strengthen her .. cause her faith to be strong.. because the one
she has faith in IS strong!
We ask this in the name of our Saviour who gave himself for us.. and in the giving, has promised us deliverance from the evil one.
Make it so, Father. We ask with humble, needful, trusting hearts.
Amen
my prayers will continue... please keep us updated!
Miche
Nov 9 2008, 09:05 PM
Hi Helen,
I stopped and prayed right after reading your request.
Lord Jesus please protect Helens daughter and grandchildren. Lord please change that mans heart, if he given over to his corrupt mind I ask that YOu protect the others from him.
Lord deliver this family.\
Provide for thier needs.
Give them a home and other needed things.
Lord be with Helen and give her your peace. Help her to be comforted in this time of greif.
Lord I ask this in Jesus name
amen
wernotalone
Nov 10 2008, 12:52 AM
Amen.
peacemaker
Nov 10 2008, 03:08 AM
Praying....
chinnam naidu
Nov 10 2008, 07:06 AM
i am praying for your prayer request.
Josepha Cobbi
Nov 10 2008, 07:34 AM
I am praying for safety and resolution for you Helen, your daughter and the children, as well that his life may also be changed, in Jesus Name.
Lead us not into temptation and deliver us from evil,
for THINE is the Kingdom and the Power and the Glory in all eternity, Amen.
crownsevenalphabet
Nov 10 2008, 11:07 AM
QUOTE (angelheart424 @ Nov 9 2008, 02:00 PM)

Hello I am urgently seeking all to cry out to God and seek His Divine Intervention.....
My son-in-law as many of you know from past posts is a drug addict. Bad drugs have controlled his life for many of the 9 years that my daughter has been married to him. In the past she had always given him the bennifit of the doubt hoping always that he would stop using. After years of lasing everything she had ever worked hard to have and dealing with him stealing from family members including her own hard earned money, to support their three children, to support his habbit. Amber finally got to the point that she just could't do it any more. So she filed for a divorce. She fears her husband b/c he is always telling her that he will kill her or all of them if she leaves him. He is very physicotic (hope I spelled that right) He will hurt someone. Well now he is threating her that when she is at work tonight that he is going to take the car (b/c it's in his name even though he hasn't worked for over a year and it was her money that bought it) and he is going to take the kids and leave probably going to Pocahontas AR. B/C they are still married there isn't anything she can do. HE IS A THREAT to my grandchildren. He is just doing this to hurt Amber not realizing the dramatic results it will leave the children with. He is constantly telling his middle child Jadelyn that her mommy hates her and that's why she is making her daddy leave. It is really bad...My grandchildren have heard him talk with such anger and hate with words like KILL and MURDER and DRUG TALK and it goes on and on. One day I heard my 3 yr. old grandson say "There is a cop out side I will shot and kill him" My gosh he is only three. He would always watch morbid movies like SAW and others while the kids watched. And shows like FAMILY MAN it is so bad he is not a dad who can take care of his kids. He has no money no job no home it will devastae my daughter AND the children if he gets away with doing this. BUT I KNOW A GOD WHO CAN INTEVENE AND STOP ANY DANGER FROM THESE CHILDREN AND MY DAUGHTER.
PLEASE PLEASE PRAY FOR GOD'S DIVINE INTERVENTION IN THIS MATTER.
And please pray for me. In July after loosing my mom I had allowed myself to shut down I talked to no one didn't go to Church and in the past few days it's like I just woke up and the greiving has began. And now I have to worry about my Daughter and Grandchildren and their safety. My heart is pounding so hard and I am shaking. The tears won't stop for my mom and I just don't know how much more I can deal with.... I close my eyes and qoute 1 COR. 10-13 God will not give me any more then I can handle and He will give me a way. Even though I believe in thoses words with all my heart it is still so hard right now.
I love all of you so much and I am thanking you now for all of your prayers. And for all the past prayers that God has always answered and got me through....
Peace Be To You All And God's Blessings will be at your doorstep..
You Sister In Christ Jesus,
Helen...aka...angelheart Listen and do as follows :
Call your 911, tell the operator that you are filling a non-emergency report of incident.
They will ask you what is the subject matter.
You repeat to the 911 operator :
My grandchildren have heard him talk with such anger and hate with words like KILL and MURDER and DRUG TALK and it goes on and on. One day I heard my 3 yr. old grandson say "There is a cop out side I will shot and kill him"
When the officer is dispatched to your home, you must let him read this letter you have
placed at the forum. Print this letter so the officer can attach it to the report he will make.
Then the police will have to call social services, who will promptly keep the husband
from taking the minor children, due to CHILD protection laws.
And indeed, you are the example of the mission I have been given concerning the
prayer cloths and daughter's of God.
If you need to speak to me, leave a message @[800]245-2567, I will have off time
this week, I am a consumer advocate and understand the situation you are in.
And most important I am under the anointing of the Holy Ghost to call out and take
action toward faith in this urgent matter.
Amen !
freedom
Nov 10 2008, 11:59 AM
Praying Angelheart, that the LORD protect your daughter and family. And, I am praying for you, that the LORD will comfort you, in knowing HE is still the GOD of MORE than ENOUGH. HE will answer your heart's cries for your daughter and family. Then, lastly, I am praying for your son-in-law, be delivered from the bondage of drugs, and that he realize what he has lost, while in its grip.
I have seen, firsthand what drug addictions and alcohol addictions can do to a family. My own family went through a similar thing, when I was married to my first husband. The LORD began to show me, how the enemy is using these marriages, that were not of the LORD, to destroy family units. GOD will never put us in a marriage, that isn't respectful and a UNION that is HOLY before HIM. We were fortunate, and I got our of that situation. More often than not, if threats were made, the person making them, will follow through. I am not saying this to scare you, but please listen to CrownSevenAlphabet, and make those phone calls. The night my first husband came home, he choked me, and tried to kill me, while my daughters were watching. Then as he got what he wanted, before leaving the house, he again threatened to kill me and the girls, if I tried to get out. I got out, that night, and went to a SAFE HOUSE. I made sure to get the help and support, I needed to take care of my girls, and myself. I prayed and believed the LORD was with me, and HE PROVIDED for every need we had then, and HE STILL DOES.
I am sending you a pm, in case you need someone to talk and pray with you.
(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
Pamela
Nov 10 2008, 01:36 PM
Yes, God is Good and you keep that on the forefront Helen....
We have continued to pray for this situation.....
May the Lord keep you safe and keep the enemy at bay!
QUOTE (angelheart424 @ Nov 9 2008, 01:32 PM)

I just got this in my e-mail today after I posted...GOD IS GOOD
Sunday November 09
This week's promise: God will never stop working in our lives
God's guidance
"I will bless the Lord who guides me; even at night my heart instructs me.
I know the Lord is always with me, I will not be shaken, for he is right beside me.
Psalm 16:7-8 NLT
The steps of the godly are directed by the Lord. He delights in every detail of their lives. Though they stumble, they will not fall, for the Lord holds them by the hand.
Psalm 37:23-24
" Giving thanks that God is near
Giving thanks that God is near
"Sometimes we try to "ride out the storms" in our lives—doing this the best we can. We think, If I can just hang on and be strong, I can get through this. David knew he couldn't make it on his own. In the past, he had found help in the Lord God. And in this prayer, David again sought the Lord's protection: "Keep me safe, O God, for I have come to you for refuge" (v. 1). He rejoiced in the guidance and assistance the Lord had given him. Though his enemies were trying to shake and topple him, David stood firm because God was "right beside" him.
In prayer today, acknowledge that God is right beside you—upholding and guiding you. Thank him that he helps you and does not leave you to struggle on your own.
A prayer for today…
Dear Lord, I will not be shaken, for you are right beside me…
from The One Year® Book of Bible Prayers edited by Bruce Barton(Tyndale) entry for November 4 "
Content is derived from the Holy Bible, New Living Translation and other publications of Tyndale Publishing House
Josepha Cobbi
Nov 10 2008, 01:56 PM
Excellent advice CrownSeven!
The Safe House option is also very good, but a last resort solution, for why should Helen have to move while in all earnest, this man needs to be taken to professional help, drugs can turn someone into a "loose canon". Since he is the CAUSE of the situation, the best way to proceed would be to have police and social services handle the husband. He needs professional help, not only for the sake of safety for Helen, her daughter and grandchildren, but also for the safety of the community at large.
Depending on the threat assessment, a Safe House can be an option, even if temporarily.
Helen, talk to the police and social services and please keep us poosted as we continue to pray for you and your family.
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