peacemaker
Aug 27 2008, 05:10 PM
boy,

she isnt doing that great this week.

But today takes the cake, shotting disrespect to me what seems like every change she gets.
I am having a hard time not lossing it with her!
Need prayer!
Thanks!
Miche
Aug 27 2008, 06:20 PM
How old is she?
I know that this doesn't make it better, but part of it is the age.
I know how hard it is when children press up to the bounderies of rules.
Be patient, but stand your ground. Kids push to see where the real boundery lies.
Be consistant.
I will be praying.
And take this comfort that if you raise up a child in the way he should go, when he is old he will not part from it.
Hugs
GodLovesYou
Aug 27 2008, 06:21 PM
Praying for you and your child to have more respect for you.
Love, Rose
Here Am I
Aug 27 2008, 06:32 PM
Hi Peacemaker,
It may be that she testing just how far she can go with you. Kids do that. You must insist that she respect you above all else. I will be praying.
HeIsFaithful
Aug 27 2008, 08:28 PM
prayers indeed! .. discipline in love.. and ohhhhhh! heard this on dr. dobson a week or so ago.. sure wished i'd had some of this info when mine were of age..
you could bookmark it/add it to your favorites and listen to it at your convenience..
http://www.oneplace.com/ministries/Focus_o...sp?bcd=8/4/2008
peacemaker
Aug 27 2008, 08:49 PM
Thanks sooooooo much. She was better, and I cant put her age down, for I think some know my why's for note doing that. I would just say she is young but about as tall as me, big for her age though! She was just looking down at me most of the day as she kept creacting me, and telling me what she is going to do.
I have stated that I am going on a protest agaist disrespact. I have some ideas that will show her just how nice I am, and not cause any hard to her. Well she got nice after a time because I just stopped saying anything to her, and when she seen that I would do what she wanted, she than asked nicely and stopped treating me that way. I dont her the next time it will be her food, I will give her what isnt her faves, inorder to show her I dont have to be nice too.
funny but I got even more on my plate after that when I went to church. I have to go on my on going pray posts to deal with that one though. I didnt do good!
chinnam naidu
Aug 27 2008, 08:50 PM
greetings peacemaker, dont angry upon your child because they are not machured minded,slowly they are understanding us because you show your love as like before,one day she must follow you and your advises.i am praying for you and your kid.
with love
bro.chinnam naidu
peacemaker
Aug 27 2008, 09:22 PM
thanks brother Chinnam naidu......
Those things she did today was very bad and it was done so and to force her will on me and not to obey and do what needs to be done. I try anything and do what I can but at time, because she feel she is right and has a right to tell me and show me how wrong she is, even at the point of being very mean and disrepactful to me, will I have to put a stop to it, or as less with her, it just gets worse.
there have been times I have put my hand on her head and rebuked that treatment she was doing, and she would stop.
But thanks for the reminder, acting out of anger....yea, not a good thing....
I told her not to talk to me and leave me alone because of her treatment and how it was making me feel. I needed space. She didnt fair will when her dad found out, and I took the tv away altogether....
Hugs!
chinnam naidu
Aug 28 2008, 02:16 AM
dear sister as a mother we must suffer about any wrong about our children, dont send out alone because the friends of her turned her another root.please show more love from you and she slowly understand the mothers love. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR KID.
with love
bro.chinnam naidu
peacemaker
Aug 28 2008, 05:50 PM
She is donig much better than she had been, back to the daughter I know. He had a few moments at the start of the day, and I bought up this page and what you all said about it, and let her read it. We had a good talk and about how she was making it hard for me. She had really tried today to be very good, had some moments, but I injoyed being around her because of her trying....to be very good!
Hugs!
peacemaker
Aug 28 2008, 06:17 PM
This is my daughter that wants to say something.....
She will go by little angle here with me, thanks....
hey I,m lil angel thanks for praying for me and my mom its very kind of you to do that for us knowone prays for me that much pluss I dont have that much freinds,like freinds to tell seacerets to well I do have four to tell stufe to two girls & two boys have you seen A Cinderala story?I think it was not nise how her step mom droupt her bundele of flowers and the cinderala girl bend doun to pike it up so she out of the picter its sad & someties I feel like I,m left out & you guys made me feel a lot a lot beter thanks guys you guys are so cool!
Ok...my baby......
Well, I will not go and creat what she wrote down, she'll get better as she goes!
I want to as well, thank you all for the prayers for her, she feels loved by them.
Hugs!
HeIsFaithful
Aug 28 2008, 07:21 PM
Hello Little Angel!
Obeying your mom is one way to show Jesus how much you love Him!
When we love Jesus, HE will change our hearts and that makes us able to
love others the way He love us! .. (loving your family is sometimes the hardest people to love), but
that is the best place to start

Thanx for stopping by to visit us..
And you know what? Not only are we praying for all of you ..you, your mom and your whole family
but most special of all Jesus prays to His (and our) Heavenly Father for us!
Jesus loves a tender heart.. may your heart be soft for the things of God!
peacemaker
Aug 28 2008, 11:05 PM
QUOTE (HeIsFaithful @ Aug 28 2008, 08:21 PM)

Hello Little Angel!
Obeying your mom is one way to show Jesus how much you love Him!
When we love Jesus, HE will change our hearts and that makes us able to
love others the way He love us! .. (loving your family is sometimes the hardest people to love), but
that is the best place to start

Thanx for stopping by to visit us..
And you know what? Not only are we praying for all of you ..you, your mom and your whole family
but most special of all Jesus prays to His (and our) Heavenly Father for us!
Jesus loves a tender heart.. may your heart be soft for the things of God!
perfact, that for that....she is in bed.....but I will let her post a reply tomarrow morning! Hugs to you for addressing her!
peacemaker
Aug 29 2008, 01:42 PM
QUOTE (HeIsFaithful @ Aug 28 2008, 07:21 PM)

Hello Little Angel!
Obeying your mom is one way to show Jesus how much you love Him!
When we love Jesus, HE will change our hearts and that makes us able to
love others the way He love us! .. (loving your family is sometimes the hardest people to love), but
that is the best place to start

Thanx for stopping by to visit us..
And you know what? Not only are we praying for all of you ..you, your mom and your whole family
but most special of all Jesus prays to His (and our) Heavenly Father for us!
Jesus loves a tender heart.. may your heart be soft for the things of God!
little angel......
thanks, last sunday was very bad it was HERIBEL but you guys made me feel good ,well, oh , I can visit again its know probelume I think its cool to talk on a chat form oh thanks for prayers it makes me feel loved thanks by!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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