QUOTE (Adeline @ Jul 30 2008, 01:34 AM)
QUOTE (OneOfHisHandmaidens @ Jul 30 2008, 12:12 AM)

(just a little side note................Rose DID apologize.....TWICE now............................. )

Thank-you! How many times should she apologize before her apology is accepted? Thank God that once we apologize to God he forgets our sins and infractions and remembers no more!

Gods Blessings,

Al

I'm not mad at rose..I accepted her appology.

When is everyone going to stop taking jabs at Justice in their sig lines, pig parlors, posting pictures etc and talking to her when she cannot defend herself?

This has nothing to do with ROSE'S appology. I have absolutely NO hard feelings over what was done to me. It's over and done. I forgave her...truly in my heart 100%. I don't forgive and remember..I forgive and forget. The things I am talking of are what is going on NOW on this board and you know it.

Lisa







So, with that said,
I moved this from another thread because I did not want to keep this going in my brother's thread. Again hon, I'm sorry about that. But we need to work some things out ladies..and whoever else may need to jump in.

It's taken on a life of it's own.

This is not really 'about' Justice and what she has done to hurt anyone.



Why I am upset is because certain members on this board have taken it upon themselves to keep it going. You all say you've forgiven, apologized, talked so sweetly about love, repentence, mercy. Yet it's not true because you have all kept it going...and I'm upset about this. THIS IS WHAT IT IS ABOUT.

You have been taking jabs at Justice ever since that ugly night. She cannot defend herself, so here I am.

There is absolutely NO reason for this kind of behavior on a Christian board. It's petty and childish...definitely NOT Christ like.

What happened to talking with grace? Forgiveness? Patience and understanding?

SHE IS A SISTER..the LORD'S Sprit is within her!!!!! Yet you find it ok to keep posting little nasty remarks and pictures to taunt her. And then of course, that good ole edit button is used when I speak up. Stop trying to get her banned for good and start forgiving!

If God treated US like this? Whew...I couldn't even imagine the pain.

Lisa, time to let JESUS and the MODERATORS of the forum work it out. I think we're all are tired of saying the same things and seeing nothing happen. I guess we could go on just cutting each other down, as we wouldn't get much but a time out anyway, but that isn't right. So, we'll do it Jesus' way. We'll BE STILL and KNOW THAT HE IS GOD.

Peace be with ya!

And how would the mods work it out unless I reported ever little jab taken at Justice. Half the time it's edited out. This is an internal problem with a few members of the forum here. I'm pointing out that you all are not sincere in your saying that you can forgive people.

I'm not trying to force you all to forgive...I am just asking you all to STOP taking jabs at a Sister who cannot defend herself.

It's ok for everyone else to heal except her?

Topic closed. Give it to God. Peace

Good thread to read that explains this... is the thread started by Nancy (OneOfHisHandmaidens), also about 'working it out'. It will make more sense to you then. And editing is okay, we all make mistakes!

Thanks for listening! Blessings!

Topic not closed...not your call. You don't have to post here if you don't want to.

You're not the only one who won't stop taking jabs at Justice who is a SISTER IN CHRIST.

There are many.






And it's called FORGIVENESS...her thread speaks of none of that except what was done in the past.
You all can't forgive and you are taking jabs. God does not like that...at least I would think He wouldn't.

Topic is closed, as far as we all are concerned. Tired of talking about it, that is the concensus. Please let it go. You won't let up and are taking up the cause for one person. You are not in the majority, I'm sorry, Lisa. Time to lay it down. We all feel we want to stop talking about this. You can take it to a Moderator if you like. That's your right. Be blessed, sweetie!

I have a right to have a topic as well as anyone else around here. Where is it in the Bible that it says majority has anything to do with Christian Principles?

Stop posting here if you don't like the topic.

Okay, we'll lay it down and not post. No problem.

Have a sweet day!

Just one thought before I go to another thread and decide never to return to this thread? Where was all this Christian Sympathy as some people on this forum (including myself) was thrown a verbal stone? Where was all this Christian Love as some people on this forum (myself included) was cussed, hexed and threatened? I am so grateful that God doesn't show favoritism as humans do. Rules are rules and if Ms. Innocence breaks one rule it's reporting I shall do. Rose apologized so let it go...your just stirring up the dust that was caused by this whole thing. And another thing? Perhaps Justice wouldn't need to defend herself if you would allow this whole thing to die down?

As stated before I will not be returning to this thread so say what you will..............

Gods Blessings,

Al

You are STILL missing the whole point of this thread. It really blows my mind.

Let me say it AGAIN...




It has NOTHING to do with Rose apologizing.
It has NOTHING to do with favoritism.

I would stick up for ANY BROTHER OR SISTER IN CHRIST that is at the receiving end of the jabs you guys have been throwing!


So maybe you should all take a little breather yourself and learn what it means to truly forgive. Because obviously you can't do that.
It's like rubbing acid on an open wound..these little jabs you take.

It's plain mean...

I know I am not well known here, and really have no place for posting in this thread other than what the Lord has laid on my heart. One person mentioned a day or so ago about strongholds...I think it was a timely word. While I am not likening any of you to Peter or Paul, it seems to me that they didn't get along too well, but they never really hung aroound each other too much either. Yet, in their adversity towards one another, they managed to still do their work for the Lord. I have no place to stick my beak in here, however, isn't this issue a stronghold in it's own way? These days coming are going to test even the most ardent christian. I think we see it here to an extent. We all love each other right? Let it go, every new word spoken just opens the wound deeper.

It takes alot to heal, this I know. I wish I could just take you all by the hand and pray with you until this is gone...Maybe we could all take time out today and pray about this and stand in agreement that we would not let this linger any longer. You are all a gift to God, and he needs you to be your best right now, so we can tear down other strongholds. Amen?


Jesus loves you, and so do I!!!!!!!


PS sorry for the typos

Amen Old School.. and sorry for posting Lisa.. but I agree! Can't we all agree to this! YES!

I would absolutely LOVE to let it go. But the members here will not.

Stop taking Jabs at our sister...pray for her, forgive her and be done with it.

mum ive just read this topic. we are all hurting still whether we have apologied anyways. i think we just all need to get along with each other and everyone needs to let go. the dust needs to settle and people need to leave it that way and stop trying to blow the dust around again

Amen, Selah.


One that covereth a transgression seeketh love; but one that repeateth a matter separateth very friends. Proverbs 17:9


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sbFEnoITiWE



Salt is good: but if the salt have lost his saltness, wherewith will ye season it? Have salt in yourselves, and have peace one with another. Mark 9:50

go to my profile vacant. I'm not keeping it going, rose is. compare the dates if you have to.

I understand that you are trying to help this matter, but the one you should be ministering to is rose.

I have forgiven her with all my heart and moved on..but she won't let it go.

I was trying to be nice and participated in her poll and actually posted my opinion, but she tore it apart.

I'm comfortable with where the Lord has me in this situation.

Thank you Vacant .

I have always loved that song "Bridge Over Troubled Water".. what a performance by Art Garfunkel! What talent! Thank you for sharing that!

I have let go.. even am ignoring the posts... but this one is ADDRESSED to me... so I will just say Lisa... let it go

I'm comfy as a bug in a rug. And soft and warm with the sweet presence of my Lord. As Adeline said, we're MOVIN on! Rascal Flatts, what a song! You should listen!


And Lisa, you said above (paraphrased):

"go to my profile vacant. I'm not keeping it going, rose is. compare the dates if you have to."


Is that not keeping it going? Lay it down for sure. They don't see what you write to me because I don't take inflammatory PMs or post some comments. Comeon Lisa... it's a two way street. Have a nice day. I am not going to start ANYTHING here, I am finished... Happy Saturday!

Have you noticed that you ALWAYS have to have the last word Rose? I did lay it down and you followed me to another forum to keep it going. You said you would stop, but you didn't. I wanted to participate in your poll because I thought it was important and a good idea. I wasn't trying to throw a wrench into it. I really wanted to share my opinion. But you despise me for it and make a play at my words and meaning. So, if you have truly let this go Rose, then leave it alone and let me be please.

Who is having the last word Lisa (oops, that isn't meant to be a question, don't really want an answer and have to come back to this thread to reply! Please no!)... really that was NOT a question, so don't answer it, unless YOU want to have the last word, and it's your thread, you can do what you want I am not coming back to it though. I have put it away and asked the Lord to handle it. That's what you should do.

I never followed you to another forum, I was led to FIND you on another forum, which I did by doing a Google search on Innasense (which ANYONE can do, there's no law against it). It wasn't hard. I do a lot of internet stuff, and I know my way around pretty good and how to find something, and it doesn't matter, my point was that you are carrying on about vindication over here and you are having a party somewhere else. So what is it? I just don't understand, and will not try to.. it's not worth the time right now. Think about how you keep replying to things I said and tell me you are NOT throwing wrenches whereever you can keep baiting me. I'm not up for taking DE-BATE (the bait)... I already have a poll on debates in another thread. So please have a nice day. And no more bait, please.., I'm full! I am really finished here talking about this, it's a dead end street and I like a wide open highway. I don't feel the need to have to defend myself anymore to you and I will NOT answer any more of your comments today. It's over, now LAY IT DOWN.

And in the meantime, have a fun weekend, do something nice with your kids. I know I am. BREAK time!

Have you noticed that you ALWAYS have to have the last word Rose? I did lay it down and you followed me to another forum to keep it going. You said you would stop, but you didn't. I wanted to participate in your poll because I thought it was important and a good idea. I wasn't trying to throw a wrench into it. I really wanted to share my opinion. But you despise me for it and make a play at my words and meaning. So, if you have truly let this go Rose, then leave it alone and let me be please.



...this isn't bait..it's a plea to leave me alone. And if you think I went to your poll to throw a wrench in, well, then that is what you'll believe. I still have no hard feelings against you Rose. And I didn't go to the forum to have a party. I'd even give you my screen name and password to prove it..just ask.
I don't know what more I can do to convince you that there is no malice in my heart towards you. I do love you Rose and I pray for you often.

Now you're getting into semantics... followed or FOUND you at another forum?? Neither here nor there, this isn't a contest to see who has the last word. I really do wish to leave you alone. If you ignore my posts, I will ignore yours. Thank you and I just am not up for the lovey dovey smoochie stuff you want to do to make it look like I'm the bad guy because I haven't given in to your 'demands'. I'm not a hostage, Lisa... I'm livin my life and would appreciate if you also would leave me be too. We all are entitled to our own lives and lifetyles, and beliefs and opinions. If you want, use the ignore, it works for me.

If you can't resist, go ahead and put the last word in, doesn't matter. Just clearing up the remark made that I FOLLOWED you, I did not, I FOUND you there by doing a search. You get too technical.. and I frankly don't want to get into a debate... I'm into discussions at this point and not with you. Thank you for respecting my wishes, I would appreciate not to hear from you about this matter any more. If you have to and just are ITCHING to have another word here, then so be it, I'm sure there are others that will add their 2 cents too and maybe you are looking for that so you can defend yourself some more. Seems to be the current pattern. You are making a mountain out of a molehill and would make a great defense lawyer for yourself, but I am really REALLY tired of having to worry about these kind of posts. I have let it go, you think I am stirring it, go ahead. I am not, just answering things you wrote. See if you can restrain yourself from answering this one. My guess is you cannot. But for real, this time you're on your own and I am going to do something FUN for a change. This is a depressing subject. Thank you for understanding!

Have a nice day, Lisa, for the third time. I have asked for all these threads over the last week to be closed as this "discussion" does not serve any purpose but to fuel the fire. And frankly, this just doesn't glorify God REGARDLESS of who wants to get the last word in. Please let it go.. PLEASE!

And please stop preaching at me, Lisa.. there will be no 'time when I am ready'.. just like we don't have to make friends with EVERY person on this forum. What we had (that you thought we had) is not there anymore, Lisa. Stop trying to go after something that isn't going to happen. Just like divorced people.. we go on, we don't look back. I am not looking back and I'm not in the flesh, dear one. You are making more out of this because you are not happy with the fact that you didn't get your way.. reconciliation. I particularly do not care to make it right with you! Does this make me a horrible person? No! There are people on this forum that don't like me either... but I am not seeking them down to try to get reconciled with them. You won't rest until you get what you want, but remember the old Stones song?? You CAN'T always get what you want. So you have to rest in God. That's where it's at. My love does not come from Lisa, it comes from God. So when you get in God, you'll know in your heart that you can rest. Thank you and I am not fake.. this is real. I really do not care to reconcile and I will not be finding you. You will have to accept that and move on. For real. There is no other way for me. I will be off this forum soon and you will just have no choice. I'm sorry, that's the way it is. And yes, you are being altruistic and Christlike, to show the forum that you are the bigger person because you forgive EVERYONE but you know, just like real life, we can't always get along with everyone. So you'll have to do what C told me in the Debates Section, just deal with it... and TAKE IT TO GOD! And I mean that in a good way. That's what most do. You can't follow me forever!

Thank you.

23 Then the king said, “The one says, ‘This is my son who is living, and your son is the dead one’; and the other says, ‘No! For your son is the dead one, and my son is the living one.’” 24 The king said, “Get me a sword.” So they brought a sword before the king. 25 The king said, “Divide the living child in two, and give half to the one and half to the other.” 26 Then the woman whose child was the living one spoke to the king, for she was deeply stirred over her son and said, “Oh, my lord, give her the living child, and by no means kill him.” But the other said, “He shall be neither mine nor yours; divide him!” 27 Then the king said, “Give the first woman the living child, and by no means kill him. She is his mother.” 28 When all Israel heard of the judgment which the king had handed down, they feared the king, for they saw that the wisdom of God was in him to administer justice.

I Kings 3:25

Rose, you are talking in circles. You were the one who left a jabbing little comment on my profile after you saw me at another forum. I asked you nicely to leave me alone, you said you would. Yet you still pound me with your words.

I can honestly say I am not here to try to make you look bad Rose. And I can honestly say I love you as Christ loves you. I have forgiven you and hold no malice towards you because the Spirit I speak from is the Spirit of Christ. You are speaking with your flesh these days. And if you keep this up it will eat away at your heart. And just maybe this is the purpose for us...to learn how to crucify the flesh. Search your heart Rose. You offer nice words to me, apologize and even bless me. And you don't do this at all from the heart. It's all lipservice. I have not demanded a thing from you Rose. I asked you nicely to just leave me alone. I never asked for an apology from you EVER. I followed you around asking why you would hurt me..because I was deeply pained. But I never demanded a thing. We can't demand love in return. I just wanted to know why.

Rose, even though you can't see I am speaking this truth from my heart, I have faith that one day you will and we will be friends again as well as sisters.
I don't have to defend myself of anything...I speak the truth and as much as you may not like that, you know it's true.

I do love you Rose, I pray someday you will see this.

Thank you for your all knowing, all seeing wisdom Lisa. Be blessed! I knew you couldn't resist adding one more!

And Lisa, really, I am not trying to argue with you, I really am trying to leave you alone. But then if you wanted to be left alone (truly), you would not be answering my every post and remember, you admitted following ME around and not respecting ME and my asking you to let it go. So, please, once again, without picking me apart and what you call my heart that is getting eaten away by lack of fawning all over you with lovey dovey smoochie sweetiness which I don't feel right now (and that's my right), and also for the PEACE of the forum.. just let it go... and I mean that from my heart. I am through with working this out. Just leaving it go. And letting GOD deal with it, which is a good suggestion for you too. Please.. and this was not the last word, just making sure all knew that this is not just me... it takes two. I have apologized, and I have let you alone... you are on my polls and topics and stirring the pot after I told you I would leave you alone. So I am not talking in circles, just trying to live my life without dissension. I just do not care to converse about this with you. Thanks for understanding again.

In reference to your post below, please stop preaching at me. There will be NO 'time when I am ready'.. just like we don't have to make friends with EVERY person on this forum. What we had (that you thought we had) is not there anymore, Lisa. Stop trying to go after something that isn't going to happen. Just like divorced people.. we go on, we don't look back. I am not looking back and I'm not in the flesh, dear one. You are making more out of this because you are not happy with the fact that you didn't get your way.. reconciliation. I particularly do not care to make it right with you! Does this make me a horrible person? No! There are people on this forum that don't like me either... but I am not seeking them down to try to get reconciled with them. You won't rest until you get what you want, but remember the old Stones song?? You CAN'T always get what you want. So you have to rest in God. That's where it's at. My love does not come from Lisa, it comes from God. So when you get in God, you'll know in your heart that you can rest. Thank you and I am not fake.. this is real. I really do not care to reconcile and I will not be finding you. You will have to accept that and move on. For real. There is no other way for me. I will be off this forum soon and you will just have no choice. I'm sorry, that's the way it is.

And yes, you are being altruistic and Christlike, to show the forum that you are the bigger person because you forgive EVERYONE but you know, just like real life, we can't always get along with everyone. So you'll have to do what C told me in the Debates Section, just deal with it... and TAKE IT TO GOD! And I mean that in a good way. That's what most do. You can't follow me forever!

No, I don't want you to really to leave me alone. I want our friendship back, I want the rose I knew..that is what I really want. But I know it's not possible for you...not right now anyway. And stop thanking me and blessing me until you really mean it from your heart. It stings my heart everytime you do. Yes, I did follow you around. I was in shock that you would hurt me like that..I just wanted to know why...but I forgave you, and I meant it. I don't want you to fawn all over me with fake love. I know how you feel about me. And it's ok, I understand it takes time. When you are really ready to work this out, you know where to find me. Rose, please read through my words without anger..try to. I know whenever you see my name that the pit of your stomach tightens up and your blood begins to boil. It's not the spirit of Christ in you that reacts this way. It's your flesh. Pray about this..and it's not a demand. I'm really trying to help. Do you remember when I said I will never walk away from a sister? Well that includes you too.

oops double post!

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