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flyingsquirrel
My Dad is a project manager for IBM. While he was having surgery that he desperately needed, his customer ( another company) started backing out of their agreements. Usually even if it is the customer's fault, rule of thumb in this business is to fire the project manager, regardless as means of finding someone to blame. If he looses this job, everything will be lost and I mean everything! Please pray for my Dad. He is very upset and he doesn't need this, he is literally still bleeding from his stiches. How can we possibly pay for the surgery if he looses his job and therefore his health insurance? My parents would loose their home they waited over 20 years to get and have had rebuilt. LORD, Please help! Do not hide Your face from me in this time of trouble! Please help! (My Dad's first name is Carl. in case you'd like a name to pray over)
Here Am I
Hi FS, smile.gif

All this stress serves only to impede your dad's healing process. What you describe, though, is the nature of the business.

I will be praying that your dad recovers quickly, and that his company would not make his operation a criterion for firing him.

Praying that God would be gracious and merciful to your dad in this situation.

May God bless you and your family.
HeIsFaithful
I will remember your dad in my prayers to the Lord..
the Lord's mercies are everlasting!

Psalm 103
Of David.

1 Praise the LORD, O my soul;
all my inmost being, praise his holy name.

2 Praise the LORD, O my soul,
and forget not all his benefits-

3 who forgives all your sins
and heals all your diseases,

4 who redeems your life from the pit
and crowns you with love and compassion,

5 who satisfies your desires with good things
so that your youth is renewed like the eagle's.

6 The LORD works righteousness
and justice for all the oppressed.

7 He made known his ways to Moses,
his deeds to the people of Israel:

8 The LORD is compassionate and gracious,
slow to anger, abounding in love.

9 He will not always accuse,
nor will he harbor his anger forever;

10 he does not treat us as our sins deserve
or repay us according to our iniquities.

11 For as high as the heavens are above the earth,
so great is his love for those who fear him;

12 as far as the east is from the west,
so far has he removed our transgressions from us.

13 As a father has compassion on his children,
so the LORD has compassion on those who fear him;

14 for he knows how we are formed,
he remembers that we are dust.

15 As for man, his days are like grass,
he flourishes like a flower of the field;

16 the wind blows over it and it is gone,
and its place remembers it no more.

17 But from everlasting to everlasting
the LORD's love is with those who fear him,
and his righteousness with their children's children-

18 with those who keep his covenant
and remember to obey his precepts.

19 The LORD has established his throne in heaven,
and his kingdom rules over all.

20 Praise the LORD, you his angels,
you mighty ones who do his bidding,
who obey his word.

21 Praise the LORD, all his heavenly hosts,
you his servants who do his will.

22 Praise the LORD, all his works
everywhere in his dominion.
Praise the LORD, O my soul.

Adeline
FS,

Your dad had the operation while still employed by the company, so he should still have health benefits. I also strongly believe that there are good guys working behind the scenes to turn an injustice into a right. FS, I am not a prophet but I just have this feeling that someone is acting as your fathers advocate. I will be praying for your dad's physical healing as well as for your father's job.

In Christian Love,

Al
Adonaicole
I am praying for your Dad.
Justice
QUOTE (flyingsquirrel @ Jul 18 2008, 01:59 AM) *
My Dad is a project manager for IBM. While he was having surgery that he desperately needed, his customer ( another company) started backing out of their agreements. Usually even if it is the customer's fault, rule of thumb in this business is to fire the project manager, regardless as means of finding someone to blame. If he looses this job, everything will be lost and I mean everything! Please pray for my Dad. He is very upset and he doesn't need this, he is literally still bleeding from his stiches. How can we possibly pay for the surgery if he looses his job and therefore his health insurance? My parents would loose their home they waited over 20 years to get and have had rebuilt. LORD, Please help! Do not hide Your face from me in this time of trouble! Please help! (My Dad's first name is Carl. in case you'd like a name to pray over)


It is these heartless businessmen with their wicked schemes that make me whitehot with indignation.
1. The health insurance must cover, for it happened while in the coverage period.
2. Firing someone for being sick, is blatant satanical.
3. IBM is UNPROFESSIONAL, when they fail to simply put in a spare project manager to cover for the healing time. IBM, are you NOOBS?
4. If he is fired, then there must be some dirty greedy politics involved. Sue them! Show teeth!

Take heed, all businesses that ABUSE someones illness to do the unjust lay-offs caused by your own greed, will no longer prosper!
For any company that is unable to care for their employees, is UNFIT for business anyway.
IBM, you will be monitored to see if you are capable to do the right thing. If not, the end of your existance is at hand.

Dear God, yet another case of blatant injustice is just brought to your attention. How many more are going to suffer from satan induced greed? I demand justice to be done! You want me to be in JOY, but as long as these stories keep rolling over my desktop, I refuse to be joyful and will suffer with the victims. Amen.

And may Carl, our squirrels dad, heal quickly.
IrishRose
Flying Squirrel...

I am so sorry, this is just not right. I will be praying for your Dad... you can count on me.. Let us know how he's doing and the status of his job. I feel terrible for you. The same thing happened to my Dad when he had bypass surgery, he was waiting for the doctor's reports on his inability to work so he could get disability, but the fired him first... It was just wrong. And I am all for JUSTICE when it comes to these crooked people.

Love ya, hang in there, the Lord sees EVERYTHING.

xo Rose
Pinky
Hey FS

i have been praying for you. i may not post in everything to say im praying but i am. so please know i too am praying. is there anything new happening with your dad? how is he?? please keep us updated. i am also praying for you and the rest of the family

much love and blessings,

pinky
freedom
Praying for healing for Carl, and that the Lord protect his job and your home.
flyingsquirrel
Things just seemed to be going from bad to worse at my Dad's work. The problem seems to be a lot of communication trouble and its difficult to co-ordinate since the customer is half a world away. He is really sweating over this one. The customer can't seem to nail down how many servers it wants moved and when and sends confusing information and often conflicting information on what servers to move and not to move and those to move later. This must go smoothly for him. Thanks for your prayers. This looks like a long way from being over. The good news is that Dad is physically doing better since his galbladder has been taken out, I'm grateful for that. I hope the LORD will take the trouble away like He did the galbladder.
freedom
Hey FS, I tried earlier to post a prayer for your dad. Either the forum, or my internet provider was having issues. Please know that I am praying for his continued healing, and also for thigs on his job to calm down and be orderly.

(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
flyingsquirrel
Thank you, Freedom.

Mom just e-mailed me and told me Dad is depressed over this whole situation. The boss gave him a compliment but, he is too over burdened with this that words of encouragement go in one ear and out the other. So I am urgently seeking the LORD in prayer on this. In a past difficulty that was work related, I let Dad know I prayed for him, and GOD answered the prayer right at that moment and the situation was resolved. Another time the Lord woke me to pray for Dad who was on the way from the airport to work at 3 in the morning. At that moment, a careless driver ran my Dad off the road. He hit the rental car. The car was fish - tailing badly. If there didn't 'just happen' to be an exit ramp imediately in front of him allowing the car a safe place to go, the car would've rolled over an embankment and he would have quite possibly been killed. He doesn't scare easily, but that scared him bad enough he talked of it for quite some days afterwards. Dad is hard hearted when it comes to the LORD but with each answered prayer, his heart is more open. I hope the LORD will clearly let him know that HE is in charge.
signet
i hear your heart for your Dad. i, too, pray for God to soften your fathers heart
and soften the head. in this country it is taught that you have to be self sufficient
and for men, even with no knowledge of God, to be in control of there families.

i ask that God would speak to your father and that he would have a born again
experience that will show him that the headship of Christ is the order of the family
and that all things in your home come into order.

i pray that in these moments of pain and insecurity that your daddy will call on
Christ.

blessings,
signet
HeIsFaithful
yes, Lord, hear our prayer.. answer and do
For the sake of our Blessed Saviour
freedom
QUOTE (flyingsquirrel @ Jul 29 2008, 07:50 PM) *
Thank you, Freedom.

Mom just e-mailed me and told me Dad is depressed over this whole situation. The boss gave him a compliment but, he is too over burdened with this that words of encouragement go in one ear and out the other. So I am urgently seeking the LORD in prayer on this. In a past difficulty that was work related, I let Dad know I prayed for him, and GOD answered the prayer right at that moment and the situation was resolved. Another time the Lord woke me to pray for Dad who was on the way from the airport to work at 3 in the morning. At that moment, a careless driver ran my Dad off the road. He hit the rental car. The car was fish - tailing badly. If there didn't 'just happen' to be an exit ramp imediately in front of him allowing the car a safe place to go, the car would've rolled over an embankment and he would have quite possibly been killed. He doesn't scare easily, but that scared him bad enough he talked of it for quite some days afterwards. Dad is hard hearted when it comes to the LORD but with each answered prayer, his heart is more open. I hope the LORD will clearly let him know that HE is in charge.
The LORD is always ON TIME, and I am praying with you, conerning these things. 1dsz5e4.gif

chrio39
QUOTE (signet @ Jul 29 2008, 08:18 PM) *
i hear your heart for your Dad. i, too, pray for God to soften your fathers heart
and soften the head. in this country it is taught that you have to be self sufficient
and for men, even with no knowledge of God, to be in control of there families.

i ask that God would speak to your father and that he would have a born again
experience that will show him that the headship of Christ is the order of the family
and that all things in your home come into order.

i pray that in these moments of pain and insecurity that your daddy will call on
Christ.

blessings,
signet



I agree with this Godly prayer in Jesus name. Amen
God's Lamb
Hello Flying Squirrel smile.gif

Sorry to hear about your Dad, Dad's can act like "bears", but inside they are marshmellow men. wink.gif

I was very close to my Dad too, and God works in mysterious ways.

"Father God, I lift up Flying Squirrel's Dad, for healing, peace of mind, and joy. I also ask you Father to strighten out the mess they are having at his work place, so her father can have peace. Protect, his job and show favor upon him. Deliver him from the lions den of IBM, work all things out so her father will see that it is You, Lord and that you will be glorified. Soften her father's heart, to be open to Salvation, and all Your blessings. Go before him, be above and below him, and on all sides of him keeping him safe. I thank You Father, for what you are doing in his life and flying squirrel's life, and I thank you now for answering our prayers. Amen and Amen."

God Bless <>< wub.gif
chinnam naidu
i am praying for your dad
flyingsquirrel
This weekend DAD'S job situation went from worse to much worse....He asked who was in charge of a server. No one would answer him. Because he kept asking who this orphan server belonged to so he could schedule maintance for it, he got people angry, all the way to the President! Now everybody is mad at him just because he asked for information he needed to do the job he was hired for! Please keep praying! I keep praying for him and it seems like GOD is not doing anything but I know that there are battles being fought that I can't see and I will keep believing GOD will answer! I might also mention there a 15,000 medical bill for his surgery to pay out of pocket AFTER insurance paid that he has to pay for....my Dad is very very depressed! Nothing is enjoyable in life right now. I am really praying GOD throws him a life perserver of encouragement...
Here Am I
Praying for your Dad, FS.... and that the Lord would rectify his job situation. May God's peace be with you all!

HeIsFaithful
praying that your dad will be able to: boldly say in his heart and feel the comfort of: The Lord is my helper, and I will not fear what man shall do unto me and that he will be at peace; that the Lord will fill him with strength and faith to continue each day
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