I feel that me and my immediate family haven't gotten a fair shake at this life.
My mother, brother, and self dealt with an emotionally and occasionally physically abusive alcoholic through our entire adolescent life. I was hit by a car on my bicycle two years ago, my brother has been laid off three times in the past twelve months, my mother lost a job and benefits due to a business shift, my father lost his pension (that he worked 33 years for), health care benefits, and to begin to mention the strange and overwhelming financial situations that seem to keep us gasping for air... among many, many other items.
My dad went in for hip replacement surgery Friday morning. He has a deteriorated disk in his spine, combined with the bad hip has given him severe pain for the past several years. With his insurance running out at the end of this year he made the decision to not put it off further and get it done.
The doctors removed the wrong hip. The doctor, my dad, and the anesthesiologist signed the leg/thigh of the correct leg and a sock was placed on the foot of that leg. The surgeon managed to cut into him and cut out the ball of his joint before realizing the mistake. It was at a point of no return, but he went out and asked my mother if he could continue and if the other (the bad) hip should be done at this time. She said yes, thinking he would be irate to wake up in severe pain from a surgery and a still bad hip. My dad lost a good hip for no good reason. I watched him suffer through physical therapy today. He couldn't even stand up, let alone barely scoot his legs across the bed. He will now be off of work longer as he's trying to walk all over again. At least with the originally planned surgery he would have one good leg to stand on, now he has nothing.
I'm struggling through my senior year in college. I work three jobs, one of which is an unpaid internship, while there are two other classmates at the same venue that get paid for the same work and same hours. I now have to take time off of class and my paid job to help my dad through this. We will surely be dealing with lawyers and a legal process of trying to get compensation for this mistake.
I'm overwhelmed and life has taken its toll on me.
My faith in the lord is not shaken. I know the lord doesn't give us more than we can handle, but that doesn't make this any easier to work with.
I, and my family, need any and all prayers. I thank any and all of you for taking the time to read this and considering us in your thoughts and prayers. Thank you.